Forgive - AND don't tolerate misconduct

From Dennis Clark (in the book "Breaking Soul Ties")"

"We have all witnessed it and most of us have experienced it. Someone treats a person really well, and lovingly, and then ... boom! Something extremely abusive happens. Healthy people do not tolerate that and they usually move on after it occurs a few times. Unhealthy people usually rationalize the behavior... If someone does something nice for you, is he or she entitled to abuse you? The answer is no."

"The truth is that it's not ok to tolerate abuse and stay in bondage when Jesus paid such a tremendous price to set you free:
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     The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed." (Luke 4:18)