abundance v scarcity mindsets

Abundance mindset = there is more than enough for everyone. Let's create & produce more!
Scarcity mindset = there is not enough, so I have to fight you to get mine.
​You will manifest whichever mindset you believe.
   These same principles apply on an emotional level. For example, whenever two or more people believe they are unloveable, or believe there is a limited amount of love and emotional support available, then conflict will result. When we realize God IS love, and there is no limitation on love, gratitude and generosity should result. 
     To deal with these situations, pray and ask to see the other as God seems them. Then, realize YOU have TOTAL control over your response to the situation. You have no right to control the other person; but they also have no right to control or invalidate you. You have total control over your response. Therefore you have the freedom to exit the conflict, and to grow from it.